Satya das. Satya das Sergey Yakovlev article woman source of inspiration for men

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Introduction

The happiness of a woman is directly related to a man. Just like the happiness of a man is directly related to a woman. In this world, there is no such thing as being alone. Men and women can only live and exist in pairs. Finding some kind of algorithm to find happiness will not work, but, of course, you can get rid of the problems associated with ignorance.

Everyone sees happiness differently, so the art of being happy will have to be learned. The science of family happiness is not an exact science like algebra, physics or chemistry. There are, of course, some general schemes, but everyone should become a professional in their family relationships. There will be no sense until this philosophy becomes a personal philosophy - to try to pass through yourself and make this philosophy your own is the task of each person. Only then will it help. Happiness in the material world is the temporary cessation of unhappiness. Family life is not light drugs, but hard exhausting work, hard exhausting happiness that you have to work on.

In this world there are a huge number of problems that we cannot get rid of. We are always striving for something, and naturally there are some difficulties along the way. It is impossible to answer all questions, but we will try to understand the most common mistakes and intricacies of family life.

Woman and her nature

Myths about men and women

We, men and women, are drawn to each other for some unknown reason. The higher forces arranged it in such a way that it seems more practical to live alone, but for some reason I absolutely don’t want to live like that. And it's not about sex at all. Not without it, of course, but this is not the most important thing. In ancient scriptures it is written that a woman without a man is inferior in the same way as a man without a woman is inferior. According to one of them, only two types of living beings can live without a couple in this world - either saints or madmen. Therefore, if a person says that it is good for him to live alone, this means that he is either a saint, or a madman, or simply has not yet decided on his life.

From dialogues:

– What does it mean when a woman says she doesn't want to get married?

– It's just that no one is calling.

– And when will everything change?

– When someone comes into her life.

A surprisingly strange paradox: a man and a woman are drawn to each other, but at the same time they are completely different. It is easier for any man to understand a male hamster or a male boa constrictor than a female of his own kind. That is, it is impossible to understand a woman at all. The mistake is that it seems to men: if she is also a person, that she is the same as he is. But she's not like that. Men have more in common with a male boa constrictor or a hamster than with a woman. The only thing that unites us, men and women, is that we belong to the same biological species. Everything else is different. Before beginning the study of this great science, the first thing we must understand is that we are completely different. God's joke that he made us look alike: two arms, two legs.

In theory, women should have something different, or a man should be different. But we are very similar.

A woman always speaks with subtext. What does this mean? In a relationship, a man must understand that a woman will always speak ambiguously, such is her nature. The combination of fears, complexes, feminine nature and softness does not allow her to speak directly. And the man speaks directly. A man must understand that if he communicates with a woman, he must achieve the maximum quality of his texts so that the woman does not find subtext in them. Therefore, the less a man says to a woman, the better for him. A woman can put together stupidity from these letters. It is better to limit yourself to some undeniable phrases, for example: "I love you." If a man begins to fantasize: “You are like the sun to me ...”, she will begin to suspect a hidden meaning: “Did you mean spots, my freckles? There are spots on the sun ... ". And for women, advice: do not put subtext into your words, a man will not understand them anyway. He needs to be straight forward.

It is very important to understand how the person with whom life has brought you is arranged. Advice to women: if you have a crocodile in your bathroom, study the performance characteristics of a crocodile. No need to feed it with cream, rub it with brushes, because it's a crocodile!

We need to understand the difference between a man and a woman. We see differently, we hear differently, we relax differently, we have sex differently, we work differently, we all do things differently. To think that if I understand myself well, then I can understand this living being is a big mistake. It is desirable to be able to negotiate on the shore. It is clear that if you have been married for 25 years, you will have to do repairs while living in the same apartment. Therefore, it is better, of course, when everything is clear in advance.

Relationship Building Stages

First step. We all have probably heard that relationships are built according to certain laws. When a relationship begins, a man is always attracted to the appearance of a woman. Subconsciously, everyone understands that it is necessary to monitor their appearance. But sometimes women fall into some kind of illusion, saying, "I'll take him with the intellect." Men always start relationships with appearance. Subconsciously, all women know this, but sometimes they neglect it. A woman should definitely spend time on this. She should not be lazy to look after herself. Hoping that a man will start building relationships differently is a delusion. A man is always attracted to the form. But the biggest mistake is to think that this is the only thing that attracts a man. When a man starts to build a relationship with a woman, he just wants her. It is written in ancient scriptures that a woman should never listen to what a man says during courtship, because he is deceiving. He himself even believes a little in what he says, but he is deceiving. Because he is sick, he has a fever. There is even such a myth that a man does not receive karmic consequences for his deceit when he courts a woman. Because during this period he is sick. But you can say whatever you want. A man is valuable not in words, but in deeds. That is why the courtship process must be long, so that a man can, courting a woman, show what he really is. If a woman just listens to what a man says, she will most likely be deceived.

What does a woman pay attention to when a relationship begins? For intellect. So that a man speaks well, so that his head understands. And intelligence usually manifests itself in conversations. Is this enough to get married? Answer: no. For example, if a man is courting a woman, she is very beautiful, but suddenly it turns out that she is intellectually weak. Will it stop a man at the beginning of the journey, in the process of courting and hunting for sex? Of course not! On the contrary, it even gives the woman some bonuses. Will a woman be stopped if, in the process of courtship, it turns out that the bearer of beautiful buttocks, chic mustaches and bottomless eyes is dumb as a cork? - Immediately! Therefore, the beginning of a relationship is always different. We, men and women, are so different that even our relationships are built differently. It seems that a man builds some kind of relationship, a woman builds her own, but sometimes they intersect and synchronize.

Second phase- this is when there is emotional harmony. Because a man and a woman, when communicating, emotionally touch each other, as a result of which some emotional attachments arise. Partners give out some emotions and carefully watch whether they like it. A woman may turn out to be beautiful, but the emotions that she provokes can bring a man to the grave right away. Or, on the contrary, a man gives a woman some emotion that a woman is not ready to accept.

Third stage This is the stage when relationships are built. The man becomes interested in the intellect of the woman. How quickly does sexual harmony arise between a man and a woman? In the first second it becomes clear whether there is harmony or not. If a woman is sexually attractive, it means that you can start courting her. That's it, the man doesn't need anything else. He courts, courts, and if sex happens, it means that there is just a sexual relationship, nothing more. It makes no sense to continue to build relationships, to study the inner world of a woman when sex has already happened. Does a man think about getting married? Of course it doesn't. But the woman wants to rebuild it into a happy marriage, and that's almost impossible. Because there is no harmony. Harmony occurs at the third level - at the level of intellect, after appearance and emotions. A man communicates with a woman for a long time, he becomes interested in what is in her head, how she sees the world, what she likes, what she doesn’t like, what she watches, what she reads, etc. And that’s only at this level, when for about half a year, a woman looks at a man and understands whether she likes or dislikes him physically. Until now, she still doesn't understand it. That's right, when a woman begins to be interested in a man after about six months of his courtship. If a woman fell in love immediately, this is a sign of an inferiority complex. This means that she has not had anyone for a long time, she invented happiness for herself, and this is a sign that the relationship has gone in a very dangerous direction. A man should start to like a woman when he has already shown that he is a worthy person. Only then does spiritual harmony arise. For harmony to arise, a man must listen carefully to a woman, because what a woman says is important. No matter what she does, a woman should not be judged by her deeds. You just need to know what's in her head. You just have to listen carefully, and she will tell everything honestly. What the woman says is true. And with her deeds, she can deceive: cook, wash, come to change linen, take care of his pet. This is all called cunning to bind a man with comfort. Women often do this.

Fourth stage. After harmony, there is an engagement, then a wedding, and then, perhaps, sex. We say that men and women are different, and the question of the difference in sex is simply colossal. Modern society positions a man and a woman simply as two identical partners. But suddenly it turns out that this is not so. This is a lie. Sex is different for men and women. For a man, sex is simple movements. For a man, it doesn't make much difference whether there is a woman at all. He himself is important, and everything else is the entourage. It is good if there is a woman, but if she is not there, it is also not a great grief. You don't need to build a very deep relationship for this. For a man, this will be real sex, it will be obvious, because for a man everything is very simple and obvious. For a woman, sex is the maximum openness, it is the most built relationship, when a woman can trust a man to fully open up emotionally. It's very difficult to build this. I would like to believe that it is possible.

We hooked on emotions, bodily harmony and intellect. Many women think that they need to have a higher education in order to talk about something with a man. A man is not interested in a woman's education, but in what she knows at all. He won't talk to her at all, maybe. What he wants to talk about, he will discuss with friends - football, cars, politics, etc. And with a woman, a man can talk on three topics:

1. she is beautiful, how he loves her;

2. what he did for her;

3. what he is going to do for her.

All conversations between a man and a woman are invested in these three positions.

If there is a need to talk with someone on various topics, a woman should still have a lot of characters in her life - girlfriends, friends, like-minded people. A man is a kind of vitamin, very valuable, but it is limited. It has its own function, its purpose, but it cannot go beyond its functionality. He will never replace a woman's girlfriends, friends, parents, etc. A man is valuable for certain purposes. But a woman can tell her man everything, but not immediately.

From dialogues:

– Are we talking about the relationship between a man and a woman in marriage?

– Who cares?

– When people first met, the husband still does not love this woman, he cannot tell her about his love.

– A man will never communicate with a woman if she is sexually unattractive to him.

– When people start dating, can they talk about anything? Or only a woman can talk about anything, and a husband should say how beautiful she is and what he is ready to do for her?

– What else could he tell her?

– On some abstract topics.

– For what?

– About travel, for example. Where did he travel, what did he see, etc.

– Yes, a woman should not care where he traveled. A man should ask about where she wants to go to travel. A woman will be interested in someone who is interested in her.

– If a man and a woman have recently met, does he try to choose a topic that is interesting to her, that is, it turns out that he pleases her, says to please her? Wouldn't he look like a balabol in such a situation?

– We mean the opening of the heart. In the family, too, it is necessary to talk only on these three topics, but this does not mean that the husband will never ask his wife where his socks are.

– What if I'm interested?

– This is what the internet is for.

Our goal, like all people, is to build relationships. A man should be interested in a woman. Often a man is forced to blab, because a woman is sometimes "stupid", she has a partisan syndrome - "decent girls are silent." And he would love to ask her a question, but maybe he doesn't know how. In order to “talk” a woman, one must ask questions, that is, take risks, get into the soul, ask about something, then listen carefully. And the risk is that he may not be interested in what she is talking about. It is often easier to communicate on abstract topics. He sits and tells her about the tanks, and she sits and listens. It is very safe, because no one will hurt anyone. A woman must learn to open up and speak in order to demonstrate her intelligence. But in this case, one should not forget about the principles of love marketing - at the initial stage, one should never talk about problems. After about seven months, you can start talking to a man a little about your problems, giving him the opportunity to participate in these problems. That is, tossing up a little bit of topics for exploits.

From dialogues:

– We discuss spiritual topics, but for some reason I tell, and he simply agrees, but does not say anything about himself. Should he open his heart or is it optional?

– What for?

– To get even closer.

– If a man wanted to share some spiritual experiences, he would share. Perhaps he shares with someone.

After all, spiritual experiences and plans for the implementation of ideas are shared with those who are stronger and more spiritually advanced. That is, the one who is older in status. The woman in the family is in the status of the youngest. She is more dependent, she is protected. It is possible that it will be very difficult for a woman to listen to the spiritual torment of her husband. He should lead his woman to God, and not talk about his difficulties. And spiritual experiences, as a rule, are associated with difficulties. Spiritual life is hard work.

From dialogues:

– You have to tell him directly that you don't like it.

– My young man and I are now in the third stage. We had a conversation about vegetarianism. I'm a vegetarian, and he knows that I don't like it when he eats meat. I told him about it. He says: "If it's so important to you, I'm ready to become a vegetarian." But for some reason this is not enough for me.

– Is it because he is just ready or has he already moved?

– No, because I want him to want it himself, not because I asked him to.

– A man will never do anything for himself. In this case, it is his conscious decision. He wants to do it for you. If he wants to do it, let him do it. A man wants to do something for you, appreciate it and thank him.

– You say that a man should not be allowed to treat himself badly. Does it apply to work? If a man treats his colleague - a girl unworthy, should he not allow himself to be treated like that?

– A woman must learn to stop boors. You don't need to communicate with him. Only for work. You don’t need to smile at him, greet him, chip in for his birthday, go to visit him, drink coffee with him, etc.

– I asked my friend to talk to him, he talked. After that, we had a tense atmosphere at work.

– So, tell your friend to explain everything to a colleague again. It's good that there is such a friend and you can turn to him. You wanted to shut up this boor - he shut up. A woman should be protected and should not be afraid to seek help. She gets married so that her husband protects her from all sorts of scum. And boors should be punished. Let him leave work. You have a man who protects you, and that's great!

– My friend's husband was brought up in a family where his father abused his mother, and now he behaves the same way with her. She is offended, but he sincerely does not understand that he offended her with something.

– Did she explain to him?

– Yes, I explained. He just doesn't take her grievances seriously.

– Why does she live with this man?

– They have a common child.

– What can I do? She lives with the man from whom she flew. Make repairs in the house in which you live, – very hard. Relationships that were not built correctly at the initial stage lead to the fact that everything needs to be rebuilt in the process.

– You said that a man should bring his family to God. First, what does this mean? And secondly, are there any chances even for the most deeply convinced atheist to go to God?

– There is no chance. A "deeply convinced atheist" is convinced of what? He just doesn't have the information. An atheist is just an uninformed person. God has a colossal resource from a deeply convinced atheist in one second to make a deeply religious person. There are four kinds of people who stop being deeply convinced atheists:

– suffering;

– people in need;

– inquisitive;

– seeking absolute truth.

It all starts with the first and second kind. Therefore, either through the mind will come, or through suffering. God can convince through poverty and through pain. Both works.

– What does it mean to bring a family to God?

– To lead a family to God, you need to know:

who is God;

how to get to it;

why go to him.

These are motives for serious spiritual practice. A deeply committed atheist will not do this. If a man himself does not go to God, how can he bring his family to him?

– Can a woman lead a man to God?

– A woman can inspire a man to engage in spiritual practices, but she will not lead him to God. Spiritual practice is the practice of the soul, not the body. Therefore, a woman needs to engage in her spiritual practice and, perhaps, a husband, being next to her, will also be interested in this. To make a man run in the morning, you need to start running in the morning yourself. This does not mean that in this way it can be made an Olympic champion, but it is possible to inspire the desire to start doing something.

– Is it possible to kiss a young man before marriage?

– There is a woman and a man. That he wants to kiss an attractive woman – this is normal. And what will happen after you start kissing him?

Of course not. A man builds relationships in stages. If a woman today allowed him to kiss her on the cheek, he considers this a milestone reached, tomorrow he will climb into the gums. Why hurry?

– If a man and a woman are married, but during sexual contact the woman does not even like the way the man kisses, he is simply disgusting to her. How should she be?

– That is, for a year and a half, he courted, told, and began to kiss - he became disgusted!

– Physically unpleasant.

– Was it only revealed during the kiss?

– Yes, and what followed.

– That doesn't happen. It seems to me that you are lying. I feel there is some trick. Perhaps you should have danced with him, taken his hand, and everything would have become clear. For example, I almost immediately perfectly understand whether a person is disgusting to me or not. It is enough to sit next to each other, to communicate, to speak. It can't be that everything was fine, but when I touched it, it became disgusting.

– The scriptures say that a man must necessarily be older than a woman. Is it really true?

– The man must be stronger. A woman must trust a man. And it is easier for a woman to trust someone who is older, who is stronger. A man may be younger, but he must be stronger. He must be the one she will follow. In most cases, when a man is older, it is already much easier for a woman to trust him. If he is younger, he will have to make tremendous efforts so that she trusts him. The main thing is that a man be morally stronger.

– The former young man has not let the girl go for quite a long time. They are no longer together, but he still works on himself and tries to take care of her. And the girl doesn't know how to feel about it. Is she ready to further consider this person as a potential companion?

– The mistake of any girl is to consider someone as a potential companion. It doesn't matter if he's an ex or not. You can always accept courtship. It is very important to learn not to be due. After all, a woman is afraid to accept courtship, because it seems to her that she will be obliged to do something. It is up to you to decide how much you allow these relationships. If you do not know how to build a distance, then you are scared and want to communicate with those who seem safer. These are the consequences of the fact that a woman does not know how to say “no”.

After Satya's lectures, I want to live and change. His thoughts inspire and help thousands of people. Many women found their true happiness and found a way out of difficult situations after listening to his lectures. Read three golden rules from Satya:

Rule #1: Any man is worthy of wooing me as long as he hasn't proven otherwise.

I want to give you an example of a story about a bouquet of buttercups: A certain man falls in love with a woman from high society. He sends her a bouquet of inexpensive flowers. She is outraged: “What does he allow himself, how dare he!” The woman rejects him. She's angry all day. And the next morning they bring another bouquet. She again swears that this is unacceptable. The next morning they bring another bouquet, she is less indignant. Well, how can you be outraged. She looks up and thinks: "Wow, he sends flowers." On the seventh day, she simply accepts the flowers and says: "That's because persistent what!" She's happy after two weeks. This continues for several months. And at some point the flowers do not come, the woman is hysterical: "He doesn't like me anymore."

A man with his perseverance and correct worthy behavior wins the heart of a woman. He has the right to woo a woman, whether she likes him or not. A woman falls in love gradually. And if a man does everything right, then the woman begins to melt. She has no reason not to take his attention.

A woman should accept what is given to her in a worthy manner.

Many people ask me about the line between gifts for which they owe something and a gift that can be taken just like that. You just have to feel when something is meant. Take first a cup of coffee, then a bouquet of flowers, then a ring and look. If the result is the same, then you can accept. And if after a cup of coffee you were all groped in the toilet, what will happen if they give you a ring? Run from this.

They ask me, but how to give a slap in the face when you think: "Maybe this is the last chance"? This means that self-esteem is nowhere lower. Isn't it scary to marry someone like that? A woman with any disrespect should end the relationship.

If you end the relationship, then a hopeless man will think, and you don’t need a hopeless one. This is his problem. You don't care about him. A man improves thanks to painful experiences, unhappy love.

To meet is to receive attention, courtship, receive care. A woman can accept this from an infinite number of people, if, of course, she organizes everything correctly. Who's stopping you? How you behave is how you are treated. When a woman has many admirers, she is a star. And it is right. And then there will be no problems and there will be no need to portray something. You accept from one, from another.

If one of them starts to drive a snowstorm, then say: “Felix, you have no place in the club of worthy men, I would not want to communicate with you” and go to Albert on a date. If Albert behaves unworthily, he joins the ranks of the Felixes. Women should not allow poachers who want everything at once. They must be licensed fishermen. Do not be afraid to refuse and reject if something does not suit you.

All kinds of men appear in the life of a woman by the grace of God to reveal their best qualities so that they become noticeable to other men who will come later. Some relationships exist to elevate a woman to a higher level of relationship.

case from practice

Once I held a seminar in Kyiv. There was a lady there, not pretty, but very nice. And she says to me:

- You say that there should be many boyfriends, but I don’t have any at all.

I ask her:

- And who do you communicate with?
Yes, I have a lot of male friends. Mom asks me, well, when will I find a man. I do not know.

- What are you doing?
- Yes, we go to the cinema, to the cafe.

– Do they tell you something?
- Yes, they say that I am beautiful, they give gifts.

- Do they come?
- Yes, they pester, and I say: “Fuck you. You are friends."

- Sunny, you have a bunch of boyfriends.
- Yes, they are friends.

- It doesn't happen like that. A man cannot be friends with a woman if he is not attracted to her. If he is friends, then he hopes for something. Friendship is either former lovers or future ones. It doesn't happen otherwise. If a man is just friends with a woman, she attracts him.

It is very good for a woman when she does not see potential suitors in her suitors and does not sleep with them. A woman should feel happy even without a close relationship with a man. When she realizes that she is happy, it's time to start a relationship.

Rule number 2. I can date many men, but I will never sleep with just anyone.

It was the men who deceived the woman and introduced the standard of sex. Already on the first date, they dream of dragging a woman into bed. And it seems to women that if sex happens, she will be able to tie a man to her. But in fact, for a man, sex is the sexual act itself, and for a woman, sex is much wider - these are words, declarations of love, hugs, gifts, treats, etc.

Dating and sleeping are two different things. A decent woman understands this well. To meet - to receive attention, courtship, care. If a man is not satisfied with this, then this is not our man.

But it is the woman who must prepare the ground, create an atmosphere so that the man wants to care and give gifts.

If sexual relations began before a man could make friends with a woman, before he asked about her interests, about her life principles, then they will never interest him.

Sexual relations should be built according to women's desires. Physiologically, a man can only have sex when he wants to. A woman at any time, even if she doesn't want to. She can portray the pleasure of the process, and she herself thinks when it will end.

But if a man is not stupid, waiting for a special period when a woman's libido wakes up, then he will walk in ecstasy for a month. Therefore, if a man wants sex, he must make the woman want it. Such sexual relationships make life and relationships harmonious and energize. And if just like that, in passing, not paying attention to the condition of the woman, then the energy will go away, depleted. A woman is not Aladdin's lamp. If you rub it in the right place, then it will not make you happy. No. The intimate side needs to be explored.

And what to do if there is some kind of misunderstanding, a different vision of events: who should give in?

Man. Whenever a man gives in, he grows. This is a lesson for him. But every time a woman yields despite her happiness, her principles, her purity, she begins to degrade.

One of my clients writes: “He is so good, successful, works well, but everything tells me against wool. Should I marry him?" You need to listen to your heart. Is he the only one so successful? Success to "can't"? Men are not few, they are many.

For women, a frivolous attitude to sex is dangerous. Sex should be taken very seriously. And in the modern world, the presence of uncomplexed women and irresponsible men has led to the fact that sex has turned into gymnastics. Nice gymnastics, but nothing more. Often sex is not even a reason for dating. Some say that it is important for a woman's health: without it, she will get sick and die - this is ignorance!

I used to take cooking classes. There were gatherings of familiar women. They talked and I knew everything about them. And at some point, it turned out that out of twenty women, no one has an attachment to sex. Women don't really need sex.

For the sake of sex, a man is ready for marriage, and a woman is ready for sex for the sake of marriage. If a man wants sex with a woman, he must be ready to take responsibility for all the emotions that a woman has accumulated since childhood and in general in a past life.

Rule number 3. For any (!) courtship, I DO NOT owe a man anything but a smile

There is nothing that could oblige a woman to act according to a man's scenario. If it doesn't work, then repeat: "I swear not to meet men who seem to me to be potential husbands."

A woman should build relationships with her head held high, without fawning or begging for anything. Remember, she should associate with those who increase her self-esteem. As soon as she sees the wrong attitude towards herself, she should stop communication and get it elsewhere.

An indicator of a woman's high self-esteem in thought: “I build relationships. I'm playing, not me."

Previously, society, traditions, parents protected a woman. She could not freely communicate with a man, otherwise she was not under protection. Therefore, a man, before getting something, had to prove himself. In the modern world, there is no such protection, it has remained only in traditional societies, to which we do not belong.

Therefore, for a man to show himself, a woman needs to accept courtship from several candidates so that competition arises. The courtship of three men is a protection for a woman and a guarantee not to get into unwanted relationships.

And falling in love for a woman is sacred. But she should not immediately rush into the pool of feelings with her head. She just accepts courtship and chooses the best. All men who compete for a woman should be aware of this. The fear of losing a man becomes the main weapon for manipulating a woman.

By allowing a large number of men to take care of herself, a woman gets rid of this fear and reveals her best qualities, which she sometimes did not even know about.

Many women will object that it is impossible with men, they cannot live in abstinence, they must be “encouraged”. And what's the difference to you? Do you work for a sexual relief service? Let him solve his own problems.

The more a man abstains, the better his brains work. Because the seed and the brain are made of the same substances. When a man loses less seed, his brain functions better.

What is abstinence for a woman?

This is a lack of affection, sweets, outfits, pleasant chores, the hand of a loved one, his hugs and kisses. It destroys and ages a woman. And it's not about sex at all. Real emotions are transmitted from heart to heart.

If a man is already dating another woman, is it possible to accept courtship from him? If he is not married, then he is free. Why not? Relationships are not relationships.
When a man marries a woman, he takes the woman under protection. If he gets so much from her, why should he marry? If a man is married, it is better not to build a relationship with him, this leads to unpleasant consequences. Even if you succeed, someone will remain unhappy.
Dating a married man This is a manifestation of an inferiority complex. A woman thinks, "I'm not worthy to date others." Against the background of a wife, it is always easier to be good. A woman thinks that in the usual competition she can no longer win, she can only get ahead of her burdened with two children, a tired wife. This is self-humiliation! If at the time of courtship a man begins to demand something, if he does not pay enough attention, then he simply does not suit her.

Imagine that you came to the store, tried on twenty dresses, but bought only one. You bought it - you chose the best, the one that fits in size, beautifully emphasizes the figure. Will you be sad that the others didn't come? No. Why do you need a dress that makes a bag of potatoes out of your figure?

If a woman next to a man works on herself, tries to be better, then this is not her man.

So this man just doesn’t suit you, although, perhaps, at first glance he was handsome. But you choose something else. He didn’t fit you - the next one will do. Of course, if you put all your eggs in one basket and think: “If he leaves now, I will open my veins, douse myself with gasoline and set fire to it” then there is cause for concern.

So, a woman does not need to portray herself, thank, try to please and become better, she just needs to get rid of masculine qualities: habits, conversations, clothes, hairstyles. The more she gets rid of it, the easier it will be for her. And everything else will come by itself. Only masculine qualities prevent a woman from being happy.

The unusual Vedic name Satya Das is heard by many users of social networks, primarily women. This is a well-known family psychologist, as he positions himself, who speaks about complex things in a simple and understandable language with humor and irony. Along with such well-known Vedic psychologists as Ruslan Narushevich, Satya arranges festivals, lectures, promotes a healthy lifestyle and a healthy approach to family and interpersonal relationships. The article will focus on the biography of Satya Das, personal life, hobbies and principles of existence.

Excursion to the past

Sathya Das was born in 1975. Biography, date of birth are not known for certain. The real name of the guru - however, according to his confession, he actually does not use it. Only his mother and government officials from time to time remind him of his real name. Why Satya Das? In translation from Indian it is "servant of absolute truth". The man received this name from his spiritual teacher.

Sergei spent his childhood and youth in Ukraine, was born in Dnepropetrovsk in a simple family. According to Satya's memoirs, his parents worked all the time, and he was forced to help them in raising two brothers. In addition, there was work in the garden.

Hobbies

Judging by the biography, Satya Das did not receive a special psychological education, however, it is recognized that the humanist is to the marrow of his bones and does not understand the exact disciplines at all. But he knows history very well, studies ancient scriptures, is fluent in the language, learned to be a culinary specialist and not only cooks with pleasure, but also conducts special courses for women, both in Russia and abroad.

For 15 years now, the man has been a vegetarian with his wife and son Ivan. According to his personal biography, Satya Das has been married for over 20 years. He met his future wife in his student years - they studied together in the same group.

Creative biography

Satya Das has been a successful lecturer since 2005. With his numerous seminars, he traveled not only throughout Russia, Ukraine, Belarus, but also part of European countries. It is recognized that it often happens in Germany and Spain. The guru has his own website, where detailed information about his movements throughout the year is displayed. In the summer, Satya usually arranges retreats - multi-day festivals. Meetings are often held outdoors, lectures are diluted with pleasant pastime - visiting holidays, socializing, culinary moments. Usually with such festivals, Satya travels to Barcelona or

The most popular seminars are "Laws of the Physics of Marriage", "Non Boring Family Psychology", "Charm of Femininity", "Men's Club: Without Snot", "Where to Find a Soul Mate", "6 Stages of Overcoming the Crisis", "I Myself", " Why is a civil marriage a marriage? Most of the listeners are women, because, according to the guru, it is according to the female scenario that relationships should develop, the role of a man in building relationships is negligible.

Why are Sathya's lectures so popular?

Every year the popularity of Sathya is growing. He won the hearts of millions primarily with his simplicity and charisma. There is always a friendly atmosphere in his lectures. They line up as follows: first, the guru tries to answer the questions asked - someone can send them in writing, someone asks orally. Most of the questions concern the family - how to build long-term relationships, how a woman should behave in marriage, whether it is worth enduring her husband's misbehavior, whether it makes sense to live with a man in a civil marriage.

Recently, seminars on child psychology and the psychology of earnings have been added to Satya's arsenal. The Guru teaches to take into account the true nature of the child: to listen to his desires, to develop strengths and not pay attention to weaknesses, to abandon kindergartens and planting one's own principles in education. Sathya is philosophical about earnings and wealth: everyone gets as much as he is supposed to from above.

Satya Das

Woman and her divine nature

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Introduction

Woman and her nature

Myths about men and women

From dialogues:

– What does it mean when a woman says she doesn't want to get married?

– It's just that no one is calling.

– And when will everything change?

– When someone comes into her life.